When we generally think of how the world is working, most of the times our society puts men on this pedestal. Despite the fact that we are living in the 21st century, women are still considered as homemakers and caretakers. Well, today I am here to put forward my opinion. Women are a lot more than just homemakers and caretakers.
Women
have got the power to change all these stereotypes and get immense praise for
what they do and what they are. Only women are blessed with a present by God to
give birth to live on this planet. A woman’s body is blessed to nurture and
grow another human within herself, which no men can do on this planet. This
makes the biggest difference in how a woman runs the world.
Talking
about, trends and fashion, these are also set only by women. Women have the
largest scale in the world when it comes to styles and fashion. Around 85% of
the world’s shoppers or consumers are considered to be women. So, they also
definitely help in increasing the economy of a country. You can totally imagine
what will happen if women stop shopping in the world even for a day!!!!
Women are inbuilt with the power of doing multitasking. Despite taking care of her family, she also flourishes her career and raises her family on her own. Well, we can never see a man doing the same multitasks as women even in the nearby future. It’s only the women who understand how to balance work and family.
Now
let us consider the fact that in the present generation women are making up the
majority of the degrees and hence are providing our country the greatest of all
work-force by doing things which a typical man can do. Hence, nobody can consider
women a weaker vessel in society as she is competing equally among the great
men in the field of jobs as well as lifestyle.
For
all those who have always believed that women are way too emotional to be
superior to men, well I totally disagree with this point. We must know the fact
that it takes a lot for someone to express their emotions than to hide them from
the outer world, which usually men do. It’s a very good quality inbuilt in
women that is to express each of their emotions and that is why they can be
well understood by the other person.
About
84% of the populations consisting of single parents are single mothers. Out of
which two-third ratio of these single mothers is very well employed. Also, to
be true a woman earning power is about 78% of the man. But that’s fine because
she has to manage a lot more than just her work. Now, can you imagine a man
raising three of his children by his own and side by side managing to earn
about 22% less than what his partner is earning? I know most of your answers
will be no. But still, this is the ideal situation of about 12 million families
in the United Nations.
Though
it has been thousands of centuries since women have been looked upon by the
men, but the trend is changing rapidly. The days where only men used to earn
for their family and be their king was a past thing. Also, men can be
physically stronger than women, but in today’s world, you need a perfect
balance of emotions and strength to run their family.
“CLOTHES ARE NOT MEANT TO CHANGE THE WORLD, THE WOMEN WHO ARE GOING TO WEAR THEM WILL.”
Many women wanna become an entrepreneur but most of them just can’t afford, then don’t. It a buzz nowadays about starting own business and being an “entrepreneur” just because it is a cool thing. It is the dream for most of the women.
At some point, most of the women entrepreneurs just give up and accept a regular job. So, is being an entrepreneur is the only way to earn huge amount of money?
If a woman wants to earn money it is not necessary to have to be an entrepreneur.
In this blog, readers will find views on entrepreneurship and having a job for money. There will be some controversial light on the subject by showing readers, why being an entrepreneur is not always the best way to move forward to get what most people want to achieve from entrepreneurship.
An individual should not think to be an entrepreneur. It should think for more money. Money making is not easy. Most of the common things in women are entrepreneurial spirit is they will almost always turn down any opportunity or partnership unless it specifically fits the criteria of what they look for.
It is great and all but these are also the same as entrepreneurial-minded people who are still knee deep in loans(college, snap tube, car, etc and mooching off their parents.
An individual should not put herself in the situation. She should realize that before she starts and growing business into a success. She needs to cover her living expenses.
If she does not have enough money and are in debt, she needs to be working to pay off debts before. If an individual receives a job offer with a flexible schedule. An individual must take it. It’s not permanent.
All the money from the job is what will be used to fund the side hustle and cover the expenses. An individual should not be fooled and hold on the ego and turn down a great offer just because it’s not good.
An individual may always negotiate the job into a remote working job. As it is said a penny saved is a penny earned. An individual should cut down the expenses.
Like, it does not always need to have a full meal at the expensive restaurant. It is no need to have a vacation at an expensive place just because everyone recommends it. A big house is not always necessary. Budgeting is important. So it should not be stressed. And if an individual thinks money is going, often times, it is the little things spend on things are not required.
It is realized most of the hard earn money goes in pleasure. Most of the individuals go to networking events without a specific reason. An individual should not go in events if she is not cleared with the reason. An agenda is necessary for any meetings.
A woman should think out of her life at a time. If women need to be an entrepreneur but may not be able to afford to right now, then don’t. It takes time for a good opportunity to come. It an individual seek it out. Sometimes it would mean to quit the ventures temporarily and have a job you love. Who knows if the job is good for you. You may find your co-workers become your co-founders.
It is beneficial to avoid expenses and focus on energy for making more money even if it means switching between employee and entrepreneur. It is very amazing for women as an entrepreneur.
The old age question that I am going to ask you next may sound
spiritual, but it is practical too. What is the meaning of life? What is the
purpose of life?
Some people are very fortunate to get the answers to their
very early age. They start living life, the way it must be lived. The rest of the
people spend their entire life, searching for the answers. I am not wrong if I
say that many people don’t want to know the purpose of “Life” at all.
For most of us, life is how it is. What the difference it can
make knowing the purpose of it. But, trust me, it does. You are here, for some
reason. Everything we do. Every person that we meet is with some determination.
Life remains until we are alive; we are breathing or at least
we know we are living. Even though we live in the smart world, we more rely
upon the tarot reading and astrology reads. The purpose of doing so is to know
what is going to happen to our life next?
THE ULTIMATE PURPOSE OF LIFE IS “TO LIVE”
LIVE LIFE LIKE YOU ARE DYING
Many big influencers belives the fact, and many have written
in their books too, that the common occurring, that is going to take place in
everyone’s life is “death”. Today, tomorrow or someday, we all going to embrace
death. What else? The end of life.
If many did not wake up today morning and if you are among
those who did, know that there is a reason. There is a purpose to give you
another life today, and that is significant, that is very important to
understand the opportunity you got to fulfil your objectives; the purposes of
life.
Now when we know that death is the end, what should we do? Sit
back at home, continue with your daily routine and wait to die? We work hard, make
relationships, save money, possess assets for the days we might not be able to
be equally active, like what we are today.
Time’s going to change, the purposes gonna change and so will
be the perception towards life. But even when we possess a lot of assets, do we
really spend the last days of our life happily. The reasons behind the death
can be anything, but losing life is anyway “saddening”.
Do we really enjoy and take that deep breath of satisfaction
that we have lived our life every day?
No, I bet the majority of us, we don’t. The reason behind this
is the habit that we grow along with our age. We are more tend to take life as
it is. But, do know that only dead fishes go with the flow, not the ones who
are alive. Alive are those who live life with a purpose. Alive are those who
live life like they are dying.
Eleanor Roosevelt said, “The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the
utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for a newer and richer
experience.”
But do we live, the way life
should be lived? For us, defining life hypothetically can be anything like going
out, breaking the glass ceilings, embracing the unknown, run to the edge of the
world and so. But in the end, we live life in the nutshell, with the normal
feelings of need, requirement and desires.
Now, when what we want to do
and what we actually do to live life, don’t seem to be alike or don’t resemble
at all, we can name “What we want to do” as ‘life’ and “What we actually do” as
‘just passing the days’.
THE PURPOSE IS TO SAVOUR THE FLAVOURS, NOT JUST TO TAKE THE AROMA:
LIVE LIFE LIKE YOU ARE DYING
How do you feel while standing
in front of a food joint, which serves tremendously mouth-watering meals? Your
mouth starts drooling, your stomach starts poking you with the hunger that was not
there a few minutes ago.
But what if, you can’t eat that
food and convince yourself and leave the place without having it? That’s not
ethical at all, right? We talk about following our heart. Do we follow our
heart while living life?
The relationships we have, the
time we get, the love we have to offer and accept; everything is just there,
like the food which is being cooked in the restaurant. We enjoy them only with
the aroma it provides, and don’t try to savour the food at all,
We are least bothered to enjoy
and relish the feed in real. The real flavours of love, relationship and even
life are left not-tested at the end.
The book takes all the effort to
answer three major questions that you are waiting to get answered for:
1.
Why am I alive?
2.
How does my life matter?
3.
What on earth am I here for?
The book got everything to
take you to a beautiful spiritual awakening to explain you the meaning of life,
to simplify your life, to make you more focused, to motivate and to prepare you
for eternity.
LIVE LIFE LIKE YOU ARE DYING TOMORROW:
LIVE LIFE LIKE YOU ARE DYING
We can’t actually shift our mind
from what we are actually comfortable in doing. Practically leaving everything
else in the sake of searching the real meaning of life is impossible. Then how
to live life to the utmost? How to enjoy every bit of experience and leave no
stone unturned?
It’s not hard at all, it’s not
even comfortable. It is not hard because there is only one thing that needs to
get changed, and it’s not easy because that one thing is “everything”. What is
that? That is the perception; the perception of seeing through life.
If we start accepting things for
what they are, if we start considering people for who they are, life will be pretty
straightforward, isn’t it? If we stop wasting our time in judging others, being
in our comfort zone, then when would we live life? We will run short of time in
the end.
We can’t change our past, we
can’t change people and their individuality, but we can shape our future, can develop
a good relationship with them further. That’s all. That is all you need to live
life in real.
Make a promise to yourself, that
whatever it takes, whatever be the situation; the primary purpose will be to
live it. Live every moment as it is.
Many people love their work. They
talk about work at the office, on their way back home, on the dinner table and
even in their bedroom- is that how life looks like?
Life is living at present for the
future. A good life today can give you a good life for the rest of your life.
“When we all give the power
we all give the best.
Every minute of an hour
don’t think about a rest.
Then you all get the power
you all get the best.
When everyone gives everything and every song everybody sings.
Then it’s live
live is life
live is life
live.”
The famous “Opus” song can help
you to understand life once again. Do things that make you strong, happy and
make you feel alive; are the factors you need to live. Go, live life as if it’s
the last day.
Becoming the mother is the best feeling in the world. The first cry of the baby and the first tender touch of those little fingers can take away every pain that a mom has gone through. But with happiness comes the responsibilities. You must agree to the fact that when things happen, it comes together in a bunch. The same goes for motherhood and the responsibilities.
The new mom has to take care of both; the post-partum frustration and the feeling of loneliness at times. There are some other moms, too, with whom you can talk and share your opinions. There is no one better to understand your feelings than the ones who have gone through the same.
But the story is complicated on the other side. Thus, if you are among those moms who have already done through the excitement of becoming a new mother way long before and now you have the opportunity to encourage and understand the feelings of a new mom, then what you should do?
WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT FOR MOTHERS:
No matter what is our situation, we always look for some encouragement and inspiration from others that impulse us. It is not that easy to keep someone motivated always, but a little motivation can heal a deep frustration in this case. Being a mom means that the person has taken all the responsibilities of compromising with her self-happiness, desires, and wishes. But, how would you feel, if any of your friends, who is a new mom now, is going through her bad days?
Here is a bunch of encouraging words that you can share with the new mom. No, you don’t need to read them all at once like a novel, but can share through various means, might be through an over-the-coffee conversation or through text messages.
Not all the superheroes wear capes to save the world, some of them follow the best parenting techniques to give the best gift to the world; a new life.
You don’t know how strong you are until you carry a different life inside your womb.
You are allowed to make mistakes, fail in your experiments and even scream out your frustration. But you are not allowed to give up from trying to do better.
You are the bravest woman I have ever seen. Just believe in yourself, and you can already win the halfway.
Never stop trying to be the best mother in the world. Even if you already are, there is more way to go and more chance of becoming the best.
How lucky your child must be, for being protected by the best mother in the world.
You became a biological mother since the day you have conceived your child, the art of parenting is yet to be explored by you. Have fun!
You become a mother from the day you have the fetus inside you and stop never to be one for the rest of your life.
When you reach the extreme level of your endurance, remember that you are not alone in this battle and someone already had fought somewhere someday for you the same way you are doing it today.
The sleepless nights, foodless hunger, quiet times- no it’s not about any exam preparation, but hush! Hush! The baby just slept.
The pain you have gone through has made you stronger than ever. What else can be braver than a woman who took part in creating lives?
FUNNY YET ENCOURAGING WORDS FOR NEW MOMS:
You can’t always keep sharing knowledge about how to parent a kid or can’t recite motivational speeches to help the new mom, who is already exhausted. Then what else can you do to make her feel better?
You can add a little bit of humour in everything you do or talk with her. When you share something to keep her motivated or when you listen and answer to her queries, don’t forget your funny bones to be a part. A little amount of joy can help her a lot to fight with her exhaustion.
What your messages should be like then?
A sleeping baby sounds like the unicorn, it feels magical to hear about it, but don’t exist in reality.
The first time motherhood is nothing less than discovering America by Columbus, you have no compass about the activity of your child, and you never know what the direction of your day will be like either.
How do you know that your baby is getting enough food to stay hydrated? With the number of diapers, you change in an hour.
Being a mother is the most confusing creature of the earth; you always fail to understand either you are a human, an owl or partially both of them.
When you start enjoying the tone of the shredder insects at night, and when the cry of your baby is no less than the symphony sound to your ears and even when you stop reacting to anything noisy, because you are used to it- know that you are an insider of the supermom clan.
DON’T MISS THE FIRST TIME QUOTES OF ENCOURAGEMENT FOR MOMS:
The first time experience of everything is just heavenly. Becoming a mother for the first time and the feeling of motherhood for the first time is beyond any word can express. It’s joyous, fun, tiring, emotional and a perfect blend of every emotional flavor. But the exciting part is you don’t control when and which emotion can rule you. So if you receive a message reading, “I need you to help me, I don’t know what I need to do” from a friend who has just become a mother, understand that she doesn’t know how she is feeling exactly.
But either your friend texts you to ask for help or not, you must share some words daily that touch her heart and soothes her tiring body and mind. If your words can make her remember that, despite every pain and trouble she might go through, there is a life which is ultimately hers, which trusts only her more than anyone else on this earth.
With the birth of every child, a new mom is born and with every birthday, is celebrated the motherhood.
Either you have planned to become a mother, or your child has planned for you to become its mother, one thing is very sure, and that is- your life has changed like a magic
A baby is a bunch of fulfilled prayers that you might have made in your entire life before becoming a mother.
TAKEAWAY:
Words have the extreme power to change everything. It is like the magic wand that can make everything positive. Some encouraging words are like the push that you make to bring out the new life. Your words may help someone to keep going. In the journey of the merry-go-round, your words can reflect like the straight line of the ray of hope.
Motherhood is not a task and is a journey to celebrate and cherish for life. Though there are times when it seems to be the most challenging job of all time, everything is just wrong when a mother looks at her sleeping child. I hope these words will help you or help any of your friend to feel better.
Remember that you are not alone, and you are going to experience the most beautiful phase of your life. There are many things to unfold daily. Motherhood is a promise that you will get new surprises every day.
